Essay On Failure Is The First Step To Success

Note: This is a guest post from Fred Tracy of FredTracy.com

If you’re like most people, you probably have a bad relationship with failure. You see it as an ending, as proof that your plan didn’t succeed or your ideas weren’t good enough. The truth is, failure happens to everyone. The only thing that separates people who succeed from those who don’t is a proper understanding of the power of failure. Success requires that you learn from mistakes and missteps along the way rather than falling into despair and giving up.

Pay attention to the information here, especially if you’re at a place where failure isn’t your friend, and you will find that opportunity lies in every defeat. Here are 3 reasons why failure is the key to success.

1. Failure is a Function of Trying

The best way to measure your progress at something is the number of setbacks and “failures” you’ve had. If you haven’t failed yet, chances are you aren’t trying very hard. Failure is the blacksmith’s hammer that tempers the sword of success. If you want to get really good at something, you have to fail at least a few times.

If you look at all the great men and women throughout history, you’ll notice that they had one main thing in common. They failed, and they failed often. Think of Thomas Edison. How many times did he fail to find the right filament for his light bulb? There are various estimates, but they all range in the ballpark of a whole heck of a lot. Henry Ford knew of failure intimately. So much so that he is quoted for saying the following: “Failure is the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently.”

Clearly, failure represents opportunity and growth, not deficit and loss.

2. Success Lies in Seeing Failure as a Tool

Just as all the greats have something in common, so too do the true “failures” of life: their inability to use failure as a tool. When you feel that sinking, desperate sensation known as failure and you take it to heart, you diminish yourself. You give your power away to an external event. Success is about learning how to recognize why you failed, and how you’re going to compensate for it.

I find it helpful to ask myself the following questions upon failures, big and small.

  • What brought about the failure?
  • How much of it is in my realm of influence?
  • How can I use my influence to turn failure into success?
  • What steps do I need to go through to try again?
  • What can I do every day to ensure that my next try is done more intelligently?

You may want to get out a piece of paper and go through that list. Be completely open and honest as you ask yourself each question. Analyze your answers carefully and implement them – don’t procrastinate! Remember, failure is an opportunity, not a burden. Be grateful for a chance to grow.

3. Failure Builds Character

If you look at the events leading up to any significant victory, you’ll often discover failure as the biggest motivator. Just as the Colorado River created the Grand Canyon over a period of millions of years, success can also come in small chunks, and they’re part of any winning strategy. On the other hand, waiting years upon years for something to happen isn’t effective when you can take action now.

So what do you need to consistently test yourself and learn from failed attempts? Character.

Success occurs in leaps and bounds for people who are ready for it. To genuinely create value, day in and day out, requires determination, purpose, and most of all, that subtle yet all-important trait known as character. Failure is a far better character builder than any affirmation or fleeting goal. While each success will propel you by a small amount, failure will forge your career – and your personality – like nothing else will. It’s the difference between a natural lake being formed over thousands of years and a man-made lake coming into fruition in under a year.

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Success takes willpower, intelligence, determination, and grit. But more than anything else, it requires failure. Use this is an opportunity to reassess your relationship to the true key to success that so many people fear.

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Published on April 23, 2011

Textbooks are the biggest rip off for anyone taking college classes. There is no reason we need to be purchasing a book for over $200. There’s just no purpose for that. What are the odds that that textbook will even be opened? What are the odds that you are going to get your money’s worth on this textbook? Honestly, slim to none. Which are not good odds if you only need the textbook for one semester.

There have been a handful of times in my year-and-a-half of college where I have experienced this. I had to purchase a book that came to $190 and I didn’t use it once. I only needed the access code in the bundle, and I figured everything else out. The only reason we were told to buy this book was so that my teacher’s friend would get compensated for writing it.

She only wanted us to support her co-worker by buying his dumb book. Since the access code has been used, I am stuck with this textbook forever. And, to make matters worse, the book is loose-leaf. If I am spending this much on one textbook, why aren’t I getting a hard-bound book? Why am I getting a textbook that requires a three-inch binder? Just plain annoying.

If a class requires an access code, there should be an option to purchase just the code. Most of the websites these codes work for include an e-textbook, which is perfect — you can get the homework done and read the book on the same website. Why do I need two copies of the book? I don’t even want one, let alone two! If an access code was available separately, I would be a much happier college student. It’s typically a little less for just the access code, rather than the bundle. It’s a wonderful perk.

But, honestly, I would much rather prefer that textbooks be included in the overall tuition costs. Then I don’t even need to worry about the individual price of the books, just a lump sum. That sounds so much easier in my opinion. Tuition and textbook expenses would even out in the end. There might be a little difference, but I really think it would be a better solution than what colleges do now. It also doesn’t help that the bookstores that sell these books are slowly becoming obsolete. We don’t even have a textbook warehouse anymore at my college.

When you check what books you need, it only gives you outside websites that sell the book and the different prices. So, we need to be very careful that we’re buying the correct book with the same ISBN number.

Also, if there is an online PDF or something where our book could be found, why not mention that? College students love free stuff. If there’s a chance we could get a textbook online for free, that makes life that much better. There’s no need to buy a book when I can access it online. It’s literally at my fingertips.

Just weighing the options for your students is one of the best things you can do for them. And in the end, we’ll repay you by mentioning it in our end-of-the-year reviews. Those who don’t, get ready to feel my wrath.

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